You're mean...

I have a confession to make, I watched a bit of Dr. Phil today when I was having lunch and he said something that really struck a cord. Instead of telling someone they're mean, think about it first, do you really mean to say that they're mean or you're trying to tell them that you miss them? By that Dr. Phil meant you miss the way the person was before. Now look on the filp side of this issue, why is the person being mean? Are they enjoying themselves at your expense, or are they just scared and that's why they put on a mean front. This all made sense as I was watching Dr. Phil...still kinda does now. What do you think?

~* Have a good nite Everyone *~